Some Missouri residents are not big on planning ahead. They may think that everything will fall into place as it is supposed to, or they may not like planning because no one follows instructions anyway. The latter may be true for you and other parents who have children who have constantly been at odds.
As they grew up, your children may have tested your patience on many occasions. You may have tried to do your best to ensure that they felt equally loved and cared for and tried to foster a loving relationship between them. Unfortunately, for whatever reason, your children never seemed to get along.